Dating Profile Fix: The Dreaded M Word Isn’t Marriage!
Did you know that there’s a scarier word in your dating profile than “marriage“? It’s driving people away from your profile in droves… even the ones who would be a great fit for you.
Welcome to the Daily Fix, where we take snippets from real dating profiles and changes the names to protect the not-so-innocent.
Today’s subject is a 40-something lady who we’ll call Renee.
Before:
Anyone with any drama in their lives need not respond. In this day and age, I believe in monogamy. If you can make me laugh continuously, treat me like a lady, but most of all, be a warm and caring human being, then I would enjoy talking with you first.
What This Says:
“I’ve been cheated on before.”
“I attract cheaters and losers.”
“I’ll talk to you FIRST if you seem better, but I may have to fall back on these other options.”
The Fix:
The scary “M” word is monogamy. Take it out!! Saying you’re into monogamy sends up red flags that you’ve been in relationships that have been less than monogamous. Even if you have, the time to discuss that is LATER, not now.
I’m looking for a life partner – my best friend who will be by my side through everything life has to throw at us. He’s a warm and caring man who loves to make me laugh and he believes (like I do) that it’s possible to find The One after 40!
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